When Trust Is Broken, Accountability Matters
Recovery support helps individuals stay accountable while giving families peace of mind.
You're Not Alone
Millions of families are going through this right now
Watching a parent struggle with alcohol is one of the most painful experiences a family can face. You may feel helpless, frustrated, or unsure how to bring it up without causing conflict.
The good news: you don't have to figure this out alone. And your parent doesn't have to go to rehab to get help.
5.7M
Adults 65+ struggle with alcohol use
1 in 6
Seniors binge drink regularly
93%
Of our members report feeling more supported
Recognize the Signs
Signs your parent may need support
It's not always obvious. Alcohol use in older adults often goes unnoticed because the signs can overlap with aging. Here's what to watch for.
Behavioral Changes
- Drinking more frequently or earlier in the day
- Hiding alcohol or being secretive about drinking
- Becoming defensive or angry when alcohol is mentioned
- Neglecting responsibilities, hobbies, or hygiene
Physical Signs
- Unsteady balance or frequent falls
- Slurred speech or confusion
- Unexplained bruises or injuries
- Changes in appetite or weight
Emotional Changes
- Increased isolation or withdrawal from family
- Mood swings, irritability, or depression
- Loss of interest in things they used to enjoy
- Memory problems or repeating themselves
"I didn't know how to help my dad without it turning into a fight. Accountable gave us a way forward that we could both agree on."
— Sarah M., Daughter
How It Works
How the program supports your parent — and your family
Your parent gets a dedicated recovery coach, accountability tools, and a supportive community. You get peace of mind.
Peer Recovery Coaching
A coach who becomes their trusted ally
- Certified coaches with lived recovery experience
- 1-3 weekly virtual sessions — no travel, no disruption
- Builds trust gradually without family pressure
- Someone to talk to who truly understands
Accountability Tools
Rebuild trust with transparent monitoring
- Daily breathalyzer monitoring from home
- Saliva-based toxicology screening on their schedule
- Results shared with family and care team (with consent)
- No more guessing — data replaces worry
Family Collaboration
Stay connected without overstepping
- Progress updates shared with your parent's permission
- Collaborate with their coach on goals and milestones
- Virtual support that fits everyone's schedule
- A framework for support — not surveillance
Getting Started
What happens when you reach out
You don't need to have all the answers. Here's what the process looks like from the family's perspective.
You Call Us
Speak with a recovery specialist who understands what families go through. We'll answer your questions and help you decide if the program is right for your parent.
We Help You Introduce It
We provide conversation starters and guidance for introducing recovery support to your parent in a way that feels supportive, not confrontational.
Your Parent Gets Matched
Your parent is paired with a certified peer recovery coach — someone with lived recovery experience who understands their journey.
Coaching & Accountability Begin
Weekly video coaching sessions, daily breathalyzer monitoring, and toxicology screening provide structure and rebuild trust.
You Stay Connected
With your parent's permission, you receive progress updates and can collaborate with their coach — giving you peace of mind without overstepping.
Starting the Conversation
How to bring it up without pushing them away
The conversation doesn't have to be confrontational. Here are phrases that families have found helpful.
"I've been thinking about your health, and I found something that might help — not treatment, just support."
"It's a program with a personal coach who helps people stay on track. It's all virtual, from home."
"I'm not trying to control anything. I just want you to have someone in your corner."
"Would you be open to just hearing about it? No pressure."
From Families Like Yours
What families are saying
"I spent years worrying about my dad's drinking. Accountable gave us a way to support him without it feeling like we were controlling him. His coach became like a trusted friend."
Sarah M.
Daughter
"My mom was resistant at first, but once she started talking with her coach, everything changed. She looks forward to her sessions now. For the first time in years, I'm not afraid to call her."
David R.
Son
"The breathalyzer and testing removed the guessing game. We didn't have to ask 'have you been drinking?' anymore. The data was there, and it actually brought us closer."
Michelle K.
Daughter
"Accountable didn't just help my father — it helped our whole family. We finally had a framework for supporting him instead of just worrying."
James L.
Son
See Recovery in Action
Watch real members share their experiences with Accountable's recovery support program.
Anthony's Recovery Story
Hear how Accountable helped Anthony build lasting recovery through peer coaching and daily accountability.
Meet Our CEO, Matt Serel
Accountable co-founder Matt Serel shares the mission behind the program and why accountability changes lives.
Why Accountable
Why families choose You Are Accountable
Covered by Medicare
Less than $50 per month for most patients.
Family Collaboration
Stay informed and involved with consent-based updates.
100% Virtual
No travel, no facilities. Support from home.
Compassionate Coaches
Certified peers with lived recovery experience.
Transparent Monitoring
Breathalyzer and testing that rebuilds trust.
Ongoing Communication
Text-based support between coaching sessions.
HIPAA Compliant
Private, secure, and professionally managed.
Real People, Real Support
Talk to a person, not a chatbot.
Resources for Families
Guides written for families like yours
We've created in-depth guides to help you navigate every step of this journey.
Frequently Asked Questions
Get in touch.
We're always here.
Send us a message or call us directly to find out if Accountable is right for you or your loved one. Our team is here to help.